This week’s video is inspired by the fact that I work with so many women who are wanting to attract love into their lives. Today I am going to expose the single biggest reason why people remain single when they don’t want to!

The biggest myth out there is that if you want love, you aught to find love or find a soul mate…That is just crazy talk – it’s about becoming the person you want to attract. It’s about filling ourselves up so we become irresistible magnets.

We think life will be fixed when we have the perfect partner but the truth is, the perfect partner is attracted like a magnet to someone who is already whole!

So what do you need to do to fill yourself up?

In today’s video I want to remind you of the tremendous power of the words that you choose especially the words you use to describe yourself and your circumstances.

You see your words influence your thoughts and as I have said so many times before, your thoughts and the feelings you associate with them determine the outcome of your life. And here’s the really cool thing about this, changing your words is relatively simple because with words, you can – to use a cliché literally “fake it ‘til you make it” It’s a fact that when you repeat something often enough, you start to believe it. You see, continuing to “make-believe” impresses upon the subconscious mind and eventually becomes your reality.

Today’s subject is a little bit different – it’s actually about realizing the power of music. Did you know that listening to music stimulates more parts of the brain than any other human function?

In her amazing book, The Game of Life and How you Play it, Florence Scovel Shinn wrote “ The Subconscious is often impressed through music. Music has a 4th dimensional quality and releases the soul from imprisonment. It makes wonderful things seem possible and easy to accomplish.”

Wow – Who wouldn’t want that?! I wonder if you’re like me and you forget from time to time to include the music you love in your life as much as possible.

Music has the power to reduce stress and increase focus and productivity.

Today I wanted to talk to you about the power of NO. What do I mean by that?

Maybe you are an entrepreneur trying to get new clients or new sales, or you are in sales and you are trying to find a new job. Whatever it is you are trying to accomplish, I can tell you if you are not getting plenty of NO’s that means you are not getting Yeses either.

What I mean is that if you are not getting NO’s, that means your calendar is just not full, which means you are also not getting a lot of Yeses.

Whatever it is that you are going through or going for right now, make sure that you are getting plenty of NO’s because that means that you are putting yourself out there.

In this week’s video, I wanted to share a word and a rather surprising definition. This week I had heard this word and its’ definition for the first time and it had a huge impact on me and my mindset.

It is the definition of Self discipline. “Self discipline is remembering what you want”

It’s that simple, to me that is just the coolest definition for it. The reason is that it does not contain words like “ought” or “should.”  because nothing builds up resistance more than hearing that.

So whatever it is that you are facing, whether a new habit or a new routine you are trying to implement to get you closer to your goal, just remember what it is that you want and that is why you are taking this step.