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The Power of a Decision!

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Hello everyone, I’m Jacquie Somerville, Founder of the Be Your Own Soul Mate movement. Welcome to this week’s broadcast of Jacquie Straight Up, the place to be if you want to live a kick-ass life of wealth and freedom. In today’s video I want to talk to you about the tremendous power of making a decisive decision. And not only that, but how making one small shift in your life can cause a major transformation.

This video is inspired by a visit that I made to my hairstylist yesterday for some color. I walked into the salon and immediately noticed that he looked different. I mean, everything about him seemed different. He was radiating and vibrating on a totally different level to normal! And so I said to him “Wow, you look fantastic”! We sat down and we got chatting and throughout the course of the conversation I discovered that a few weeks ago he decided that he had gained too much weight and he wasn’t feeling good about himself. Every time he looked in the mirror he thought about how he needed to make a change. Finally, he made that decision a few weeks ago. He changed his eating habits and immediately started to lose weight. And in two weeks he lost 10 pounds! Now listen, he’s a guy right so for all your girls watching, it takes us a little longer than two weeks to lose 10 pounds, but he made a decision! He acted on it, and he got results right away because the Universe does like speed and when you make a decisive decision it works with you pretty fast. And what happened was, it changed everything. So that one small shift caused by a very decisive decision that he made changed how he felt about himself. So he was quite literally radiating and vibrating at a totally different level.

He started to attract other great things into his life. He even met someone and started a brand new great relationship! It all has happened in a matter of weeks. It happens so fast when you make a decisive decision and you make one small shift. And get this, it changes the way you feel about yourself. Because how we feel about ourselves determines our entire life. So here’s the thing, what small shift can you make today that changes the way you feel about yourself? Because I’m telling you, that will cause a major transformation in your life.

So once he lost the weight, suddenly he started to feel great, he started to give off a different attitude, a different vibe to the world. He went on a little shopping spree. Didn’t spend much money, he was smart about it. He bought some new clothes, that also caused a major change in how he felt about himself. One thing led to another, and the now he’s a different guy! It’s truly amazing! Not that he wasn’t great before, but he’s taken himself to a whole other level. So that’s what I want you to realize today. What shift can you make right now that’s within your control and you can act on right now that actually will transform your life. It doesn’t have to be complicated, but it does have to be a very decisive decision.

So there you go, that’s my message for you today. And in the comments let me know if you’ve experienced something like this before, I’d love to hear from you! Do you know what I mean and have you ever made a small shift in your life that caused a major transformation? Let us all know about it. I love to hear from you. And if you’ve liked this video, please make sure to click the like button and I would just so appreciate it if you would share it with others.

Have a wonderful week, and I’ll see you next time for another episode of Jacquie Straight Up- Bye!

  • Stacy
    Posted at 09:49h, 11 October Reply

    Hi Jacquie! I have totally experienced this before. I used to always make excuses for why I couldn’t run as my choice of cardio. One day I decided to get up in the morning and go for a jog. It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be and I ended up loving it! Now it’s a part of my daily routine and I can’t imagine getting my day started without a short jog in the morning! It sets my day up right and always gives me a rush of endorphins and makes me feel great!

    • Jacquie
      Posted at 08:27h, 14 October Reply

      That’s so awesome Stacy, congrats to you! XO

  • Clenette
    Posted at 09:55h, 11 October Reply

    Wow Jacquie! I can’t tell you how perfect the timing of this video is! Thanks for sharing your hair dressers story.
    It’s always motivating to hear success stories. Especially when you just need that one last push to do what you know you need to do!

    • Jacquie
      Posted at 08:28h, 14 October Reply

      So glad it resonated with you Clenette, thank you! xo

  • Smita
    Posted at 02:36h, 13 October Reply

    Thank you Jacquie, I am so very guilty of this. I can never make a decision always cross question myself and ask numerous sources for their advise….. this week I took the stance and made a decisive decision and its amazing how things changed ever since, all for the good.

    • Jacquie
      Posted at 08:29h, 14 October Reply

      Wow! I am SO thrilled that you have experienced that Smita – Congratulations! More decisive decisions and fabulous transformations are in your future too! XO

  • debra
    Posted at 01:29h, 17 October Reply

    Dear Jacquie,

    You are truly inspiring.

    I am my own worst enemy and have basically put my life off ( i am 55!) not really able to get my act together. Working on it though.

    However, just looking at your lovely face and the positive energy you radiate give me a big kick in the right direction. Keep up the good work.

    With gratitude


  • Jacquie
    Posted at 05:33h, 17 October Reply

    Thank you for your kind words Debra – I am thrilled that you are inspired by the videos! I would be happy to offer you a complimentary coaching session to help you to no longer put off living your life to the fullest. email us at if you’d like that…
    In the meantime, know that you are unique, precious and born with a purpose! XO

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