08 Mar How to Deal with Endings
This week’s video is inspired by a recent coaching session that I had with one of my VIP clients – And it dawned on me how this is something that effects us all, “how to deal with things coming to an end” – whether it’s friendships, romantic relationships, a marriage, a job or career, a life. When something comes to an end, it has run its natural course and that door is closing so that another can open.
As a society, we find endings so difficult, intolerable and in most cases downright wrong – something to avoid at all cost, and that couldn’t be further from the truth. The truth is that absolutely everything has a beginning, a middle, and an end – some shorter and quicker than others – but it is all meant to be.
We only have to look to nature to know that this is so. Living beings and things enter our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. We are so conditioned as a society that everything should be for a lifetime but that is not the way the Universe works – that’s just a human-created myth to feed our own insecurities!
When something comes to an end, there is a reason for it – it has run its natural course no matter how short, and know that it was perfect for the time that it lasted. Be immensely grateful for all that it was and have faith that the Universe is unfolding as it should. Whenever something dies or ends, there is an opportunity for rebirth, for re-invention and for growth – just as long as you see it that way. And therein lies the key – It’s how you interpret things that creates your reality.
People who go into a downward spiral after the death of a person, relationship, or job, do so because they don’t see these difficult transitions as the natural order of things and as tremendous opportunities for rebirth. Have faith that the Universe is unfolding as it should and when a door closes it was meant to be. The shift that such endings cause in your life, can be perfect for you but only if you see it that way! As hard as it may be to believe it sometimes, the Universe really is unfolding as it should. Take comfort in that and be open to the new opportunities coming your way. When you are open to them, you will see them.
Thank you so much for watching this video – If you’ve liked it, please click the like button and make sure to share it with your friends – this is helpful information for all of us! I’d love to hear from you so make sure to leave a comment below this video and let me know how you deal with difficult endings and what opportunities have come your way.