27 Sep Why Vulnerability Matters!

Hello everyone, I’m Jacquie Somerville, Founder of the Be Your Own Soul Mate movement. Welcome to this week’s broadcast of Jacquie Straight Up, the place to be if you want to live a kick-ass life of wealth and freedom.Today’s video is all about vulnerability. And I want to bust this myth that so many of us seem to think. And that’s that vulnerability is weakness. That vulnerability means crying or showing what we perceive as a weak emotion. And an actual fact is, it’s the complete opposite. Vulnerability is strength. And I’ll tell you why. When you open yourself up and allow yourself to be vulnerable, it equates essentially to being real, to being authentic. Completely real, completely open.

We become vulnerable when we step into the Arena, when we lay ourselves bare for our dreams, when we are willing to step in and step up and show ourselves in all of our glory. That’s vulnerability. That’s why it equates to strength. Because we know that it takes strength to lay ourselves bare, to be real, to step up to the plate. Also, success in love requires vulnerability. Because what is love if we cannot be real in the process? What is love if we hide our true emotions? Vulnerability is showing how you feel outwardly. Vulnerability is being absolutely real and raw when it comes to love, when it comes to business, when it comes to stepping up to being all that you were put on this earth to be. So that is why it is so incredibly important for success in wealth as well as success in love to be vulnerable.

We can’t have strong relationships with other people whether they are friendships or romantic relationships if we’re not completely real and completely true right? So that’s where vulnerability comes in with success in love and success in relationships. We need to be real, we need to be true, which means we are vulnerable when we are that way. So the two go hand in hand and it’s got absolutely nothing to do with hiding your emotions and being the person you think you should be, the person you think you should portray in order to have a successful business,  or you think you should portray in order to be in love or to have that person love you. No, it is being real. It’s not what you think you ought to do, it’s being absolutely true to you, being absolutely real, opening your heart sully and completely. Because that is being vulnerable to rejection. Stepping into the arena when it comes to business and life is also being vulnerable to criticism and rejection. But without it, there is no success! That’s why vulnerability is strength.

Vulnerability is the key to success.

So, if I’ve done anything this week, I hope I’ve changed your perception of what it means to be vulnerable and that I’ve shown you the true benefits of it. It’s being real, its being true to who you are, that’s where your success lies.

Thanks so much for watching this week’s episode of Jacquie Straight Up, if you’ve liked the video, I would so appreciate if you would click the like button and I’d love it if you would share with others! I think that this is a great message to get out there. Also, leave me a comment and let me know what your perception is of vulnerability. Tell me what you think vulnerability truly means and how it serves you. I’d love to hear from you!

That’s it! I’ll see you next week for another episode of Jacquie Straight Up. Thanks for watching- Bye!